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Well everything moving along at least with the hospital and them bothering to do something.. Dad has his appointment with the chemo team today to sort out what treatment he will be getting, also on fri hes seeing the specialist about his operation for a stent to be put in. So fingers crossed
I can not believe it will be 6 months tommorow since ju passed away in my arms, i feel so sad just like it was yesterday all those so painful memories ive worked so hard to forget have come flooding back , that last week was so devastating ,he fought so so hard and just wouldnt let go ,and ive never really spoken to anyone about those last few days as it was and still is too painful , i couldnt possibly explain it to people as its just impossible to understand unless youve been thier , ive been with...
Just as we thought we might manage a few weeks of normality after Patrick's op and before any more treatment he's been taken in to hospital with an infection. Went in on Sunday and they can't get his temp down. More scans and tests today to try and pin down what's going on. He's worn out and fed up!! Me too!!
Thanks for the kind words and wishes everyone.
I sat up with her last night and after a few hours sleep, my Dad woke me. A family friend, who used to be a cancer nurse, had stayed up to sit with her. I was told by her that my mum on her way. So I went and sat with her. Today has been an incredibly stressful and upsetting day. My mum is still with us. We had to call out the nurses a few times to give her pain meds and meds to calm her agitation.
The house is full of family and friends at the moment...
…..this time I didn’t run away! I did it! I went to the hospital, stayed in and had the stomach drain done. It has helped and I do feel a bit more comfortable…..but not sure I’d do it again unless entirely necessary. As revenge my body retaliated and I now have water balloons for legs! Oh and, after coming home on Friday, I came down with a lovely tummy bug. Another reason to avoid hospitals where possible. It’s now Wednesday and despite feeling absolutely shattered...
Last week my 82yr old aunt was told her ovarian cancer from 3 yrs ago had returned & was now in her liver & lung. She is in hospital & has been given weeks to live. After her original surgery (which they botched) she was so disheartened she stopped treatment half way through her chemo & discharged herself from further checkups so it's no surprise it's returned.
I thought I could deal with this but unfortunately everything seems to be becoming a big deal. Along with taking...
Today i had a meeting with HR and my matron AND all i heared was blah blah blah blah.
They dont understand how stressful it can be trying to constrate at work when you know someone is dying.
Yes im going to have more mingraines and yes im going to have to take time off work with them.
They really dont understand how i feel and i try to keep them informed about lil mans condition but they dont want to know. The thing what gets me is when i first told them they said to me if i need any support...
Had my 1st round of chemo yesterday no ill effects so far so was all fairly painless experience mainly just boring im going to get through alot of books in the next 6 months!
now im off for an hour on the bike
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pete .
I hope sharon doesnt mind me telling you all but she is 40 today,and i know shes having a really hard time ,her mum is very poorly, but she along with us would want you to enjoy today and your party friday ,
so please have a lovely day , i wish you a very happy birthday , love and hugs jenni :) , and ps your older than me xxxx
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