why do people not understand

That's awful Sunflower, especially considering your place of work, you would think they would be very understanding and certainly should be.  I'm so sorry they are being so hard on you and rant away, but, that makes my blood boil for you.

Hugs

Nic x

Hi Sunflower,

That is terrible! I know personally that my brain feels like porridge. It is really stressful. You sure don't need added stress from work too.

Hang in there.

Becky

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hi sunflower

i work as a health care assistant  , and was treated disgustingly by my work place when my hubby was dying, * in a dementia care home * so i know just how you feel ,i did return their after ju ,died but have since left as couldnt stand the way i was being treated , and i honestly think your right its because they just dont understand how hard it is ,

take care hun , hugs jenni xxx

Hi sunflower

I am so sorry for the way that they have treated you. I am greatful that so far my experiance of NHS understanding has been better, I think unfortunately for you that is because I am lucky that I work in a very supportive department with all very nice people, but I know from friends experiances with health problems (not dealing with relatives dying or grief, granted) that it really can be pot luck. Have you tried occupational health department? they may be able to put some pressure on your bosses to cut you the nessesary slack, afterall if they push you to breaking point it will cost them more in the long run!

I hope something works out

take care

T

Hi Flower,

Good idea from T . Have a word with occupational

Health Dept. Rattle a few cages and see what happens. All the best and Good Luck.

Take care and be safe Big Hugs Love Sarsfield.xxx