Hi All,
I find myself joining this group, looking for support. My Dad has been diagnosed with terminal SCLC at the age of only 61! His prognosis is with treatment upto 12 months...
I am absolutely devastated. I attended his second round of chemo with him a few weeks ago, and it broke my heart to see him cry. I think about his situation every day, I struggle to sleep or eat, and constantly cry. I can’t imagine life without him, or what his future holds. He starts his third chemo session next week followed by an MRI scan. It’s been 2 months since diagnosis and I am heartbroken.
he gets a little tired easily now, with a slight cough, but appears to be managing his chemo well with no side effects other than slight forgetfulness. I have everything crossed his scan goes well, because for me he seems too well, but friends and family are telling me to be realistic and not give myself false hope. I feel like my whole life is falling apart, myself and husband are rowing because I won’t talk about it, but if I do I know I’ll break down. I have two young children who I am trying to protect also. I want to just scream, why is life so unfair. X
Hi and welcome to the online community at what sounds like a very difficult time for you.
I haven't been in the same position as you, as I was the one with cancer, so don't have any direct experiences to share with you. However, I noticed that your post hadn't had any responses and didn't just want to pass by.
You might like to take a look at this information from Macmillan about when someone close to you has cancer and also this on getting support and looking after yourself.
Macmillan also has a Support Line that you could call if you feel that talking to someone outside of the family about how you feel would help. It's free to call on 0808 808 0000 and is available daily from 8am to 8pm.
Sending a supportive ((hug))
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