My Dad has cancer of the oesophagus

Dear Han1980,

No you are worried about your dad that is normal. It will feel like a set back the fact that he has to have more treatment. You have the right to feel emotional about this new update. You will figure out how to continue to support him.

Maybe arrange a day that he can be pampered, spoil him and do the things he enjoyed before he got sick and spend the time with him. 

My dad was diagnosed in 2025 with prostate cancer and I was so worried about him, thankfully he is responding to treatment.  Unfortunately his world has been turned upside down as I have just been diagnosed with breast cancer. But we are supporting each other.

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 Carolinesd

Thank you for your kind words.

Im sorry your Dad has cancer but im pleased his responding well.

Im so sorry you have breast cancer. I hope your treatment goes well and you recover quickly.

thinking of you city xx

Your dad may not feel up to much, but going through the new treatment. But think of how you can spend time with him, that is what I did with my dad. If he drives he may enjoy a drive in his favourite vehicle. Read the same books so you can discuss them. I can recommend some good authors and TV shows for you. Take him to a nature park and spend time with him.  Hope these are suggestions you can use x

Thank you. He does love driving. In fact his driving to Portugal next week to his holiday home, his most favourite place in the world. Then when he returns he will start his treatment xx

If and when he feels upto it maybe organise a day when he can drive some classic cars around a race track. It will give him something to look forward