We were told on Monday that the treatment isn’t working now and to get our affairs in order. How do you manage when loved one feels so poorly and you’re not a health professional.
My wife has advanced breast cancer and she has been fighting it on and off for nearly 7 years. She has had chemo 6 different types of chemo and just started the sixth last Thursday, all we can hope for with the chemo is to slow the cancer.
I take my lead from my wife and she keeps giving me instruction on what to and not to do when she is no longer with us. 2 years ago she got me to take out an over 50’s life insurance so I had enough for funeral, she has told what music she wants and what to be cremated in. Our daughter is pregnant and the baby is due in March I am hoping my wife will still be around.
From a purely selfish point if view I am dreading the loneliness and perhaps forging new relationships if it comes to that.
Sorry I haven’t really answered your question, I suppose you need to look at the practical stuff such as wills and finances.
