Hello lovely people,
I have read through many posts here and found so much comfort in people willing to support each other.
My mum has been told she has incurable cancer and is undergoing a biopsy for confirmation/treatment options. She has lung nodules as per a scan taken last week.
One CRN nurse has told me on the phone that cancer has spread to the lungs. Another told me on a different day that without the biopsy of the primary site, they cannot confirm it is cancer.
I think I am the only person who has been told this. I was at the appointment and am certain they did not mention her lungs. At the beginning when asked to sum up what she knew, mum mentioned they had seen nodules on a scan but that was not brought up again. I am also the only person with permission from mum to talk with the CRN team.
I don't want to bring this up to family and scare them, especially when I've been given conflicting accounts but knowing this feels so isolating.
It might be two weeks until we get results and I just feelnlike I'm sat with a bomb in my chest that I have to keep contained and I just dont know how to function normally while we wait.
