I want to care for my husband but in his eyes nothing i do is right and he can be quite nasty too be honest im at the end of my tether .he has advanced metastacies Prostate cancer that has spread to his bones and lungs . He genuinely is in a lot of pain and is waiting to start chemo but too be honest i live in a busy household and he just keeps picking arguments with us all its like a nightmare that never ends
Hi Patience
Welcome to our community, I hope you find it both informative and supportive.
That sounds really difficult, I wonder if your husband can get some support for the pain as perhaps that might help some. Do remember that the helpline here is open 8am to 8pm every day if you need to talk.
<<hugs>>
Steve
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