I woke up with a neck pain and had to go to work today. This made me very tired, so had a late afternoon nap but woke up crying. I had dreamt of my husband walking down a unfamiliar road. Whilst I was initially happy to see him from a distance, when I got closer, he ignored me and would not talk to me. Found this upsetting.
I don't recall my dreams often and understand that they relate to your subconscious. Mind you this felt like a nightmare! The sad bastard in me will probably research this further!
Back tracking, a few days/weeks after my husband had died in 2018. I dreamt that he had come to me and given me a hug in bed. This felt very comforting at the time, as I had only just lost him. He felt near to me. It also felt like a loving goodbye.
Wondering how others would interpret my latest nightmare and/or share their dreams (once they finally do get to sleep!).
With lots of love,
Dutsie Xx
Hi Geoff,
wow that’s a very accurate explanation of a dream i had last year just before i went down to cornwall for the first time on my own. I dreamt i had walked into the cottage after a day out Surprised to find Jerry there. I asked how he got in he just said they knew who he was so let him in. He asked about my day i told him i then mentioned i had bumped into a friend of his and we had a coffee and a chat. Jerry asked What was wrong and i just said steve never once asked where you were, hes your friend after all. Jerry looked at me with i why would he look, i then realised he was dead. I took it as he would be looking out fir me on my trip. But the dream is painful it was like losing him all over again.
x
Hi Puddle fish.
It does seem to me you had a visitation from Jerry because there was communication between you both. Despite the pain which will eventually subside you'll feel at peace with this wonderful experience.
Love and Light
Geoff
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