Terminal cancer

hi

I don't have any advice, sorry, but I can see you've posted before and had some support here

Perhaps try the incurables group?

I found talking to someone in almost the same situation as me very comforting when I was first diagnosed with breast cancer, several of my daughters friends mothers had been through it and I started walking around the park with one in particular and there's just a different level of conversation you can have with someone in the same or similar situation.

This group is more likely to be of help for your husband finding the best ways to support you.

I'm not a massive fan of rigorous segmentation of these groups, I've been a carer, I've been a patient, I've had to endure chemo, I've had friends die, not just from cancer, I have dwelled on and considered my own end of life care. 

And I do find it therapeutic to discuss things on here. 

Have you considered what might be a 'good death' that was a topic we discussed recently in The Room. 

Some people don't like talking about it, my husband refuses to acknowledge that he will die one day, maybe not yet but one day. 

hugs

Carolyn

xxx