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hi everyone, sorry i have not been in contact for a while, because i have looked after my dad till the end. dad passed away last tuesday and his funeral is on wednesday. my mum needs keeping an eye on at the moment as well, so i have not had time to do anything , as i am a only child it is all down to me, and i am meeting myself coming back at present. D ad put up a brave fight to the end and never complained once. I dont know what i am going to do without him, my world has fallen apart. I will catch...
mum went to hospital today and they have told her that she can't teally do much and that she can't have any radiotherapy, it wouldn't do any good.
they've upped her morphine and now she is halluicnating she was actually argueing with me earlier over something that wasn't there!
got gp coming tomorrow to see her so will be telling him about todays events
x
My wonderful wonderful mother has been diagnosed with stomach cancer. She found out last Wednesday whilst I was away on holiday and told me once I had got back.
She is 78 years old and has made up her mind already not to have any treatment. Last year she got me to make a 'living will' for her with me as the executor. She told me in July this year when I went to visit that she was tired and didn't want to get any older. She told me what was in her will, what songs she wanted at her funeral and what...
ok..i recently found out that if the word PLEASANT is used to discribe the patient ... it is code so other doctors know you course no problems .. my last consultation the surgeon repeated .. i was a PLEASANT patient on the dictorphone.. i thought ok i'm nice but wow.. Then i spoke to a person in the medical profession who is a friend and she said it is a compliment to say the least ... does anyone else know any secret code words lol
Just thought i'd do an update on what's been happening. Ian went in for his chemo last Monday and has been in bed ever since. It has really taken it out of him. Up till Monday morning he was able to do some small jobs around the house meaning he had some quality of living. But once I brought him home on Tuesday all he could manage was to just get into bed. I knew he really wasn't feeling well when he asked me if I would do his meds for him. This was a bad sign as he never ever asks me to do...
Just got back from that interminable hospital waiting! (Surely someone could design better systems.)
However this time it was good news. For what seems like the first time since Christmas, we've come away from the hospital feeling better.
Tony was diagnosed with kidney cancer, "a massive tumour" (15cm) in February & had his left kiney removed at the end of March. He was recommended for a trial of Sorafenib but by the time he was due to start, 'seedlings' in his lungs had started to grow and...
My husband found out today that his chronic back pain is myeloma, we are due to see a specialist at our local hospital on Friday. He spent the whole of July and August at the osteopath having all sort back treatment, then he went to the doctor after the osteo said he was concerned and suggested the doctor. Put on pain killers and diazapan until last week when suddenly all the stops were pulled out and x rays three blood tests and then todays thunder bolt. Our daughter has just got engaged will my...
Hi,
Cannot get my head round this new site at all and can't seem to write a pm to you!
If you would like to contact me, I gave you my email address before and hopefully you'll be able to find it???
I'd love to hear from you and find out that you're doing ok - it's a tough time - Dad's been gone 12 weeks now and it's still hard!
Love to all
Sam
I am very agitated today I found out a family friends mum died last night she was terminally ill with cancer, then just minutes ago I found out a friends mum died last night. I know it sounds stupid but I believe in the fact that every comes in 3s its how I figured out my friend was pregnant last year as my 2 other close friends were expecting babies and I knew there would be a third and I asked and I was right she hadnt told anyone and was slightly freaked out that I had figured out without seeing...
Hair all gone now plucked up the courage to do it, have got some lovely scarves and hats and have even been out without anything on (my head that is). Next chemo tomorrow at christie, am doing a group photo with loads of mates on wednesday some who are bald anyway and some kind souls like my Jon and my sons and my brother who have all shaved theirs off in sympathy. Some of jons friends have done it so they'll be on the photo too.
Thats as long as I'm ok after the next dose of poison. will try...
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