Speaking to an empty room

  • Living life in 5 week chunks

    The ent want to see dad every five weeks without fail for the next two years...how come ,dad asked ...they said they didn't feel comfortable letting it go any longer between check ups....the cancers aggressive and the primary hasn't been loca...
  • A New Normal

    The dust is now settling and things are starting to feel more normal.Dad goes tommorrow Wednesday 22 July to see the ent folks again to discuss the path forward now he's not having the radiotherapy.Appatently a schedule will be discussed.Im not g...
  • Face To Face

    We go today and even though  Dad's is adamant he's not having the radiotherapy until he's sat in that room with the oncologist telling her then I guess anything could happen and he might say let's do it..... We were told the cancer is aggressiv...
  • Cracking on

    Dad's Pet scan was clear but the drs wanted to do more tests,hunting round in his throat and mouth to search for the original site but Dad says no .He's decided he doesn't want radiotherapy ,he can't face it and we go see the oncologi...
  • Oncology...

    Had the first oncology appointment today basically told the cancer was stage four ,three lymph nodes involved,not primary and containers squamous cells.... Long rotton story short,radiotherapy will be shit,lots of awfull side effects and no guarante...