Speaking to an empty room

  • Back in their happy place

    Thank god they've sodded of ....and I say that with a smile and irony...mum and dad went ten days ago to their caravan ...at one stage over  these past few months when dad was told it's cancer,I honestly thought they'd never set foot...
  • Living life in 5 week chunks

    The ent want to see dad every five weeks without fail for the next two years...how come ,dad asked ...they said they didn't feel comfortable letting it go any longer between check ups....the cancers aggressive and the primary hasn't been loca...
  • A New Normal

    The dust is now settling and things are starting to feel more normal.Dad goes tommorrow Wednesday 22 July to see the ent folks again to discuss the path forward now he's not having the radiotherapy.Appatently a schedule will be discussed.Im not g...
  • Face To Face

    We go today and even though  Dad's is adamant he's not having the radiotherapy until he's sat in that room with the oncologist telling her then I guess anything could happen and he might say let's do it..... We were told the cancer is aggressiv...
  • Cracking on

    Dad's Pet scan was clear but the drs wanted to do more tests,hunting round in his throat and mouth to search for the original site but Dad says no .He's decided he doesn't want radiotherapy ,he can't face it and we go see the oncologi...