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  • Oncology...

    Had the first oncology appointment today basically told the cancer was stage four ,three lymph nodes involved,not primary and containers squamous cells.... Long rotton story short,radiotherapy will be shit,lots of awfull side effects and no guarante...
  • Oh FFS !!!!!

    You couldn't make it up Dad decided hed cut the garden hedge....why FFS...normally hed do it ,but he's got cancer,he ain't himself after the surgery and plus he's not sleeping and even before the cancer his heart af made him knackered...
  • Channel My Inner Spock

    Today I go with my Dad and Mum to see the Ent and chat about the path results.We know already ,because the consultant called on Tuesday to let Dad know the cancer isn't a primary...give him and us time to digest the news...but today we'll kno...
  • Just bloody ring instead of tex links !!!!

    I know it's the modern way but mum and dad aren't modern ,they don't even have the bloody internet ...they're smart phones are crap and don't connect correctly when they're dependent on signals in the atmosphere...but despite ...
  • Phone Call From Hell

    The MDT team have met and reviewed the path findings and rung my mum.and dad.I knew something was amiss when I phoned to ask how mums toes were,she's had two toenails removed in an attempt to cure fungal toenails.Dad answered but sounded off,as t...