Speaking to an empty room

  • A New Normal

    The dust is now settling and things are starting to feel more normal.Dad goes tommorrow Wednesday 22 July to see the ent folks again to discuss the path forward now he's not having the radiotherapy.Appatently a schedule will be discussed.Im not g...
  • Face To Face

    We go today and even though  Dad's is adamant he's not having the radiotherapy until he's sat in that room with the oncologist telling her then I guess anything could happen and he might say let's do it..... We were told the cancer is aggressiv...
  • Cracking on

    Dad's Pet scan was clear but the drs wanted to do more tests,hunting round in his throat and mouth to search for the original site but Dad says no .He's decided he doesn't want radiotherapy ,he can't face it and we go see the oncologi...
  • Oncology...

    Had the first oncology appointment today basically told the cancer was stage four ,three lymph nodes involved,not primary and containers squamous cells.... Long rotton story short,radiotherapy will be shit,lots of awfull side effects and no guarante...
  • Oh FFS !!!!!

    You couldn't make it up Dad decided hed cut the garden hedge....why FFS...normally hed do it ,but he's got cancer,he ain't himself after the surgery and plus he's not sleeping and even before the cancer his heart af made him knackered...