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was told last week I have months to live was not expecting to be told that.  

Michelle 

  • Hello , thats a lot to take on board Michelle, i am really so sorry to hear this news. It’s always difficult to hear something like that but we also know prognosis is a very difficult thing to predict and you never expect to be told this and you have to keep looking at maybe there wrong, and all kinds of other thoughts, but also your having to now look at what this means to you any plans that are needed to be made. I would definitely urge you to call the helpline for some extra support right now, it may not seem much but just talking it though and getting your head around it all is something I hope will be some help to you. Talking about our mortality is difficult and plans obviously need to be made but it be helpful for you to have some extra support with this and it may be a massive help talking to the members in the incurable group about how they are dealing with it etc, i always say only when your going though it you truly understand, its hard no doubt and i am really saddened about this news today, it is as you say so unexpected but even if it was it doesn’t make it any easier I respect that. Keep talking about your thoughts, and emotions right now, lots of people hear to listen and allow you to get them thoughts out.

    sending you a massive hug right now

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  • Hi Michelle,

    I was not expecting this. I got half a message from you last week. This explains it, I think.

    What can I say? I can't begin to know how you are feeling. Big, big, hug (                           ) xxxxxx

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    Totally shocked & saddened to read this Michelle, sending massive hugs & love to you right now xxx HuggingHugging

  • I’m so very sorry to hear this. I hope you can share your thoughts and feelings with people who know you or those who know what you’re going through. Wishing you strength and fortitude xx

  • Dear Michelle  I am so very sorry to hear this. It must have been incredibly difficult to hear and such a shock for you and your family. I know words probably won’t help right now, so I’m just sending you a warm, gentle hug. I hope you and your family will have all  the support  you need. You are in my thoughts and prayers xx

  • Dear Michelle, Lipgloss l am so very sorry to read your news. You are in my thoughts. And l think GBear's advice is very good, l am also sending you a massive hug.

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