Hello All
I have spoken to my Oncologist at last and I am officially incurable with an expiry date of two years. I am starting Folfiri in three weeks hopefully after the peak of Covid19. Then a scan and a possibility of Ablation of the biggest nodule called Trevor. It will mostly be chemo options until I have tried all of them and they stop working.
I am glad that I have had all of my treatment so far, it has given me an extra year of good health but unfortunately it looks like the cancer got a good hold in the form of micro disease before it was found. I may lurk here occasionally but I will be spending most of my time with the incurables group. They are a lovely bunch of folk, wise, funny and inspiring. I hope to face my dragons with as much fortitude as they all do. As they often say, it is about learning to live with cancer rather than dying from it.
I hope that this doesn't depress people. If you catch it early enough it is very treatable and most people go on to live a normal life afterwards
Hi Nicky ,
Words just seem so inadequate just now . I do wish you every success with your treatment and waiting a few weeks seems a good plan just now . It would be lovely to hear from you from time to time but what’s more important is that you get to be in the place that is able to support you the best . They are a great group and you will be well taken care of and a few laughs along the way .
Much love ,
Court
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Hi . It’s nice to hear from you again but I wish it was under better circumstances. It sounds like there is a course of treatment planned so I hope it’s all tolerable and you’re able to get rid of Trevor.
Spending time on the board with people in a similar situation is totally understandable but please pop in here from time to time and let us know how you’re getting on.
Take care
Karen x
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