Just found out ,that in about a couple of weeks time ,i will be having surgery to sort this tumour out, and yes i was told i will be having a stoma bag fitted, its a lot to take in at the mo n yes it scares me, i was given a stoma sample to try at home, but dont want to try it, i think ide rather wait until the real thing is fitted, then i know its for the best and its real, i would like to ask ,how did or do you cope with this, and then i have the thought in my head it will be a long surgery, and will be in hospital about 4/5 days ,im sorry to moan on ,as i know a lot of people here have been through this, and are still trying to come to terms with it ,and do their own recovery, but as i say the nearer the days get ,the more scared i will feel, how did you site yourself up for surgery,and the hospital stay, any advice please will be of help,and thank-you.
