Hello one and all
On 16 December I saw my surgeon who told me that the MDT were meeting the next day to discuss me. I have still not heard from Southend Hospital, would be grateful for some advice as to how long I should wait before I chase them up.
Love Inanna
Hi Inanna. There are no set time limits for these things, but 2-3 weeks is about average. It depends on workload, and sometimes we get lost in the system. I would be calling my CNS or consultant secretary by now. I always chase up my appointments as on occasions, I was not on the list when I should have been. Even if you can just get a date, it takes away the anxiety of waiting for the post everyday. I hope you get some good news. Best wishes.
Hi Inanna, definitely phone again if you don't hear from consultant's sec by about 4pm today. It's her job to respond to you. I think the hospital is being very slack about giving you feedback from a pre-Christmas MDT. I phone to get oral feedback from my CNS immediately after a MDT meeting ends. Then I always get the same info in writing, within a month, and my GPO is also copied in. It's unkind to leave someone hanging-on waiting for advice when the information is available. I appreciate we have had Christmas etc in the middle but I think the hospital needs to get on with it. Hope you get a result very soon. Sending cyber hugs. x
I will do that H, I have not met my MDT team yet to know who my CNS is. If I get no joy very soon, I will be getting a referral to a London hospital
Love Inanna
Just left another message. They are being so slow. I said I want a response because this waiting is doing my wellbeing no good at all. They will be sick of me, I am going to be on their case now everyday. Once they pull their finger out I can move to the next phase of my journey.
Love Inanna
Hi Inanna. Not sure if you are aware, but you don't actually meet the MDT team. The team comprises of a number of medical professionals and not all are directly linked to your case. They usually meet once a fortnight and discuss a number of different cases. Recommendations regarding your case is then usually discussed with you via a consultation with your consultant. I hope you get some news soon. Once they get the initial TURBT out of the way, things tend to move along with less urgency. Best wishes.
I was introduced to my CNS at that first meeting with the consultant after the TURBT when 5hey tell you it is cancer. I hope you get a response tomorrow. xxx
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