I'm so scared. My father was discharged from hospital Wednesday and after lots of scans and tests there, they think he has bladder cancer with secondary cancer in lungs. He is not eating much or drinking and will only stay in his armchair. He can manage to get toilet as it's near his chair. He is very weak and doesn't bother to wash , dress or shave since he got home. I've been sleeping on sofa in same room. He has another scan Tuesday but I'm not sure he is strong enough to take. I've given up work for the forseable future but I'm not feeling very strong today. I'm all hes got and its hard to try and stay strong when I can see something is wrong. Help I don't know what to do
