My wife was told she had stage 4 BC in Jan 24. Last thursday we were told she only has a few weeks left to live. She has been in bed since Friday and this morning she was incontinent. I had to clean her and the bed up.
I don't know if I can do this anymore. I need help. Id rather she go into a hospice but she doesn't want to.
What do I do?
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