So my mum has terminal cancer and dementia then last monday she had a severe stroke and now has no mobility on her left side.
Last night I was at the hospital and she was begging me not to leave her, was so hard to leave and is such a sad situation I just dont no what to do for her anymore.
There defo is no god up there that's for sure as she should not be suffering like she is.
Hi Jackie.B welcome to the forum and I am so very sorry to hear about what is happening for you and your family.
It all sounds very traumatic for you and little wonder and at times like this we do call into question all our beliefs and things we think should happen in certain circumstances and I dont think anyone would judge you for that I think it is something we all feel.
I dont know what to say to make any of this any better for you except to let you know that I am thinking of you and we are here if you feel like chatting or just sounding off.
Sending some huge big hugs your way for now.xxx
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