Hi Ella-_b, I see that you haven't had any replies to your message so I thought I would respond....not that I have an answer to your question. As you have probably read a lot of us are still post op or waiting for surgery, so sex isnt really on our agendas! But it is an important topic, especially if you are in a partnership. My only advice would be to speak to your nurse or medical team. You might not want to bother them, but really if you have a worry then it is not something trivial, it is something you are concerned about and they are there to help. So, give them a call. Hope that being told to call them by someone else will convince you to do it! Good luck.
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