Newly diagnosed

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Hi All,

Hello everyone! My husband aged 67 was diagnosed with Angio Sarcoma on his scalp 30/12/2025. We had never heard of it but the first online search made us both terrified of what we were facing. It had taken nearly 4 months from the first GP contact to that point as he went via Dermatology first. Since then he had a PET scan then finally an appointment with a Head and Neck Plastics consultant at the end of January, who said it was a 'horrible disease' and highly likely to return. They said it should be dealt with quickly and seemed to be saying the op would be within 4 weeks. He was given no treatment plan and told little else other than a discription of what the operation would entail. He had an MRI 2 weeks later and a pre-op appt a week after that, but still no op date. I called and was told that there was a date on the system of 19th March - this will be 11 weeks after diagnosis, and we can see it spreading down his forehead at an alarming rate. We are both very scared and frustrated - worrying that the delay is showing a lack of urgency and understanding of this disease. Is this timeline normal? 

  • Hi  welcome to the group, but sorry you find yourself here. My sarcoma is a different type to your husbands, but like yourself, I would be worrying if I was told 4 weeks but that has turned into 11. Has anyone seen your husband since the pre op appointment? Do you have an assigned nurse you could contact, or the number for the oncologist secretary. I think you need to be voicing your concerns that this is visibly growing. If you cannot contact any one from the hospital medical team then I would suggest you contact your husbands GP who will be able to email them directly. 
    It may well be that this is the earliest appointment with the surgeon, but I would be fighting to get this earlier. Sometimes it is who can shout the loudest unfortunately, it shouldn’t be like that, but as stretched as our NHS is sometimes we need to address the urgency. 

    Also please do not google search any more. The internet is full of very bad outdated information, and is full of the worst case scenarios. It will not do either of you any good. Try and get the information you need from here, and sarcoma uk. 

    I would be getting on the phone tomorrow, please let us know how you get on. 

    “Try to be a rainbow, in somebody else's cloud” ~ Maya Angelou
    Chelle 

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  • Thank you for replying and confirming that the wait is not acceptable. I did call and speak to the consultants secretary to be told it's in the diary for 19/03 - I told her that we'd understood that it would be within 4 weeks and that we can see it spreading. She said that she would pass that on to the consultant but we have still heard nothing. No contact since the pre-op apart from a 'lifestyle' telephone appt for 06/03. I also emailed PALS yesterday at 5am (when I woke up worrying about it). I think I will give the secretary another call tomorrow.

  • Hi. I too had a long diagnosis journey and then quite a wait for urgent surgery for uterine leiomyosarcoma.  I had amazing support from PALS.(patient advocacy and liaison service). My surgery date was moved forward very quickly then. They were truly wonderful.  Please do give them a call, or even better, an email as then all is recorded.

  • Thank you. It's so difficult because we want to believe that they are doing all that they can and doing it right and no-one wants to have a go at the NHS. But this could literally be the difference between life and death and so I have finally realised that we need to start pushing. Hopefully PALS will make a difference and I will call the secretary again tomorrow.

  • Do it. I had my surgery on 11th of December.  I was told afterwards by my clinical nurse specialist that it would have been in March.

  • My husband also had a long wait from first biopsy to diagnosis, and through radiotherapy and onto surgery. I dont think Id even heard of PALs at the time. Sadly my husband died from this very aggressive but rare sarcoma, a diffetent one from yours,  and I will never know if all the waiting around reduced his chances of living longer. I remain convinced that if he had been a lot younger, he would have been treated sooner, but of course I cant prove that. 

    Do chase, do make a noise and I hope you get action soon.