Hi folks,
Not sure how many people with the same diagnosis I might connect with here - apparently we're quite rare - but I thought I'd say hi anyway.
A year after first seeing my GP about a growing lump in my back, I'm a now couple of months after my DFSP diagnosis and a first excision, when the consultant didn't know what it was.
After getting my diagnosis from a general surgery consultant and the local hospital, I was quite reassured reading about it online. DFSP has a really high survival rate and low chance of metastasis. But the consultant who first removed the tumour had awful bedside manner. She explained some factors made her question the diagnosis and ended my final appointment with, "I'm so sorry, you're so young."
She referred me to the Royal Marsden and after a 2 month wait I got an appointment with the consultant. Who had an equally poor bedside manner, but was actually reassuringly dismissive of my concerns, in a weird way. He recommended another excision under general anaesthetic with bigger margins but still fairly superficial. He said, "I think you're worrying about it too much"! Frustratingly, he also said the method of initial excision at my local hospital means my wound after surgery is more likely to open up and my chance of recurrence is higher.
I had those couple of months of doubt where it was possibly something worse. But luckily feel relatively reassured now that it will hopefully be just a nuisance going forward.
I appreciate this is just my experience. It won't reflect those of other people in this group of even with DFSP.
Anyone else out there with DFSP?
Hi AlexDFSP
Searching for DFSP on the forum there have been a few people on here over the years but not many as you can see here
My wife has Leiomyosarcoma so understand the wonders of a rare cancer diagnosis and sometimes finding good information can be more difficult though sarcoma uk has something here.
I am sorry to hear about your experience with the doctors, sometimes because they deal with cancer every day they can become a little bit detached from the massive impact it has on their patients lives - well until cancer decides to visit someone they love anyway. Often the savior in that process is the specialist nurses.
It is likely you will be having checkups for some time yet but hopefully that will be all you notice. That is all my wife has now as her cancer has been stable for over 10 years even if for her there is not a cure at the moment.
<<hugs>>
Steve
