Hello. I have stage 4 Kidney Cancer

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Diagnosed at the end of 2020 and met my oncologists at 5pm on New Year's Eve!

One kidney has an 18cm tumour and there are tumours in my lungs and lymph nodes. I have a tumour in my skull and a tiny one in the pelvis.

I have immunotherapy (Pembromizulab) and pills (Axitinib).

Anyone else have the same? I am married but my husband will not speak at all about the cancer, symptoms etc etc

I live (retired; I'm 65) on the west coast of Scotland; only been here 12 years - not long enough to make friends apparently (been told it takes 40 years/at least one generation!)

Hadn't had symptoms since and don't really know what they will be. Except I now am having "twinges" in the lungs area; about 3 weeks. Can't really say it's pain as it's too fleeting. Is this it? My Beatson nurse must be fed up with me - I have not been coping well - so I have joined here in case anyone is going through the same.

Best wishes to you all

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    Hi again. Is it the palmar/plantar syndrome? I have that with my Axitinib and find it's where I have hard skin (hadn't realised I had any-not obvious) that is really sore so I have urea cream and a podiatrist, neither of which help! My best solution is supportive sports socks. I rarely go out but when I do my trainers laced tightly helps too - my feet seem to like constriction. I use Boots peppermint and marshmallow moisturiser as peppermint is supposed to hep. So is asparagus but I haven't tried that!! I'm too lazy to try soaking my feet - epsom salts & rhus tox are supposed to be good too but I don't get round to trying. I just tend to sit with my feet up most of the time. I put up with the hands as they aren't so bad. But my syndrome is more soreness than swelling... Hope you find something that helps

    I don't have tiredness. I sleep 12.30 to about 6 and have bags and shadows under my eyes so look tired but don't drop off! It's good to hear you can carry on, even at a slower pace, and day to day being generally good is excellent news. I should be inspired by you and do more so I will try! x

  • Chillamum, I hope you have a good day today.  xxx

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    Thanks Fedupperson. My younger son has flown up this week so it is so good to have him here. I will make myself more conscious of that and how lucky I am. My biggest failing is that I see/feel/dread the worst always and I need to change that!  I wish you a wonderful day too x

  • Call me Dawn. Am always here if you need to chat..   Cancer can be a lonely game.   x

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    Oh gosh dorry to hear your feet are giving jyou so much bother. Is there anything they can do?

    lol i think we all have those bags. Yes Im bery hrateful. Just be happy Blush x

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    Thats great. I hope you have a lovely time togethet

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    Thank you! Have a great weekend I hope! 

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    Hi chillamum ,  kidney cancer UK have a great support group . I think they did some quite regular meetings precovid in Scotland but now it's mostly online . I'm sure they'll get back to face to face meetings soon . It could be a really good opportunity for you to talk to others that understand and it's a great place to get advice for counteracting treatment side effects . Best of luck with your treatment 

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    Thanks Wcd - I have seen a Facebook support group but am not a fan of facebook. As I am not in an well-populated area I am not really expecting any face to face. Had hoped to find someone else on my treatment of Pembromizulab + Axitinib but that would only be Scotland anyway as England & Wales NHS rejected that treatment due to cost.

    Hope you are going along as well as you can and thank you for the kind response. Take care!