Hello. I have stage 4 Kidney Cancer

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Diagnosed at the end of 2020 and met my oncologists at 5pm on New Year's Eve!

One kidney has an 18cm tumour and there are tumours in my lungs and lymph nodes. I have a tumour in my skull and a tiny one in the pelvis.

I have immunotherapy (Pembromizulab) and pills (Axitinib).

Anyone else have the same? I am married but my husband will not speak at all about the cancer, symptoms etc etc

I live (retired; I'm 65) on the west coast of Scotland; only been here 12 years - not long enough to make friends apparently (been told it takes 40 years/at least one generation!)

Hadn't had symptoms since and don't really know what they will be. Except I now am having "twinges" in the lungs area; about 3 weeks. Can't really say it's pain as it's too fleeting. Is this it? My Beatson nurse must be fed up with me - I have not been coping well - so I have joined here in case anyone is going through the same.

Best wishes to you all

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Chillamum

    Had the immunotherapy for kidney cancer but have lung too. Where on the west coast are you?

  • Hi Divine Ms M!

    Thank you for making contact. Is it kidney cancer in your lungs? Surely not unlucky enough to have kidney cancer and lung cancer too. When were you diagnosed? How are you doing?

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember in reply to Chillamum

    Hi Cillamum

    Afraid not...it was get one freeRoflI was diagnosed about a year ago and doing ok thank you. My head has calmed down a lot as I was a mess when first diagnosed which the folk here told me was normal. How’s you?

  • NOOO! you have kidney and lung?

  • I'm new to this & just realised I could read your profile. So sorry you've had such a bad time. I have had 3 scans; the original then March then June. Next is in 3 weeks. All I seem to do is hold my breath between the scan results and don't have a life at all! So I know the horror of waiting. When I was diagnosed we hadn't known how long so my husband took over walking our beagle and doing the shopping so I don't have much to do. Fill my time with puzzles, reading and a (very) little gardening. I also spend the majority of the day worrying about whether I can feel the cancer progressing or not! I look well but put that down to being overweight and staying that way by eating lots of fatty and sugary foods! My main grouch is I have a very sore big toe which stops me walking properly and feel that's not being taken seriously as I'm stage 4...

    Are you still waiting on the scan results? Let me know...

    Chillamum x

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember in reply to Chillamum

    Yup!

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember in reply to Chillamum

    Oh dont worry about that-chatting much better. The waiting sucks doesnt it, I was living scan to scan and it felt like I was sitting around waiting to die. Now Ive taken back some (not all) of my ‘jRolling eyess’ and actually feel better for it. So no round the eorld cruises or anything just trying to fo normal as farr as I can. Oh yes I know that feeling! Ive done something to my back and my first thought was its the cancerRolling eyes

    im curvy too and theres not much a donut wont solve! Get them to scan your toe just for peace of mind!

    got my results and the pleural fluid has slightly progressed but the rest still for now. What about you?

    is it ok for care where you live? I was an incomer in Laide Rofl

    sylvia x

  • We're on the Cowal peninsula so go to the Beatson in Glasgow. There are two part time Macmillan nurses in the area but I kind of save that rather than cause a nuisance in a small community. The Beatson nurse was fed up with me and actually hung up on me a few weeks ago so I try not to ask anything now - save it up for the next results and have a face to face. Long round trip with ferry but gets me out! Sitting around waiting to die sums it up but how did you break out of that? 

  • So the results are mixed - that's difficult to guage when is the next step? Another scan? Mine are 12 weeks apart...

    xx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember in reply to Chillamum

    Same, every 12 weeks.At some point there will me more chemo but thats for when things progress a lotas that will be my last chemo