What to tell children

FormerMember
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I'm due to have a mastectomy in December. I've always played rough and tumble and piggy back rides with my grandson who is coming up to 5. What do I tell him why nanny can't play anymore? I hope you don't think my question too trivial 

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi gymfreak

    Now let's correct that sentence. Nanny can't play rough for a while. She can still play but not rough play because she's had an operation. 

    I have granddaughters and I've taught for 30 years. Children of that age understand much more than we think and are often very compassionate. Just explain that there was something wrong, that you've had an operation at the hospital and that you need time to get better. Keep it simple. My granddaughter and I had a lovely time with the medical set playing hospital, board games, being creative. 

    So tell a simple truth and just play differently for a while. Hopefully Father Christmas  Will bring a new favourite to play with Grandma.

    Hugs

    P.s. watch out for those sharpe little elbows when snuggling.

    P.P.S. no such thing as a trivial question on here

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember in reply to FormerMember

    Thank you for replying. I guess I was overthinking things. Thank you 

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi , 

    No question is too trivial here. 
    I wish you well with the mastectomy. I’m sure your son or daughter will explain things to your Grandson or you can do it together. 
    You will soon be bk playing with him again even if it’s at a more relaxed pace x

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember in reply to FormerMember

    Thank you. X