I'm due to have a mastectomy in December. I've always played rough and tumble and piggy back rides with my grandson who is coming up to 5. What do I tell him why nanny can't play anymore? I hope you don't think my question too trivial
Hi gymfreak
Now let's correct that sentence. Nanny can't play rough for a while. She can still play but not rough play because she's had an operation.
I have granddaughters and I've taught for 30 years. Children of that age understand much more than we think and are often very compassionate. Just explain that there was something wrong, that you've had an operation at the hospital and that you need time to get better. Keep it simple. My granddaughter and I had a lovely time with the medical set playing hospital, board games, being creative.
So tell a simple truth and just play differently for a while. Hopefully Father Christmas Will bring a new favourite to play with Grandma.
Hugs
P.s. watch out for those sharpe little elbows when snuggling.
P.P.S. no such thing as a trivial question on here
Thank you for replying. I guess I was overthinking things. Thank you
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