Hi everyone, I'm 8 years out from Triple Negative bc grade 3. Now I know there is now something wrong in my other breast, its been 3 months its been hurting plus other symptoms....kept waiting hoping it would go away but things have gottten worse. Ive been to see my g.p. and I told him I wanted an urgent referral to the breast clinic, he did this under the 2 week rule. I got my appointment today and its for 4th June...But...its states in big bold letters that when I go for this appointment I will only be seen by a Dr, and if he/she decides I need more tests I will be sent an appointment some time later on in the post because they are so busy and short staffed. They will not be dong any tests on the day. Well I know there is something wrong in my breast, I don't need any dr examing me to tell me this, what I need is a mamo and an ultra sound urgently. I do not want to go and see a dr who is then going to tell me I will be sent an appointment in the post for a later time because they are short staffed. I was told by a dr and a consultant last time I had nothing wrong with my breast, and the mammogram picked up a grade 3 triple negative tumour. They told my mum nothing was wrong and she died 3 months later from the cancer aged 53, my nan aged 50, my mums sister aged 52 and the final remaining sister aged 60....so I really don't want to be going to somewhere that can't even fit me in for testing. Where do I stand with this. Can I demand to be sent somewhere that can do the tests on the same day? I am wasting time waiting for people to fit me in. Many thanks for any advice.
Wow that’s a cart load of high grade poop
And reading between the lines - you are near to breaking point as can be possible . That’s not a criticism from me that’s an opinion based on your post
So practical advice
1, Take a big deep breath
2. read the appt letter and check out who you can call
3. Monday morning make that call
4. Tell them any time there is a free appt a missed appt someone who can’t make it. YOU will be there
5. If this isn’t going to happen pester your GP and ask to be referred to another hospital
Basically become someone’s pain in the proverbial until you get peace of mind
Ok this would be my approach but no harm in trying
Good luck and let’s hope for a simple answer to allay your fears
Leolady56
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Hello ,
I totally agree with Leolady56 - we can hear from your post how upset you are. I to think you need to look at the letter and find a phone number, phone them and explain all to them, explain you have been referred under the '2 week referral' - to have tests, not to attend and then go back! Ask and ask again, if they say you can't have any test that day, ask them 'where you can go to have tests sooner'. if you don't have the confidence to do the phone call get a friend to do it for you, or even pretend you are family phoning on your behalf, I know it sounds silly, but I am more confident and pushy for others than I am for myself.
I do think it is crazy to be going for any appointment and not having a mammogram or ultra sound, i can't see the point in it, other than 'it is fitting in with the 2 week referral'.
I think phone them on Monday, maybe Tuesday with it being the Bank Holiday, phone them and ask what will happen at the appointment, explain that your doctor said you 'would be having mammogram and ultra sound' - wait to see what they say, if they say 'no, not at this appointment, then push from there, calmly and politely, explain all the situation and pray you have someone kind and understanding on the other end of the phone.
You say you are 8 years on - I wonder, are taking any tablets for adjuvant hormone therapy?
You know, this makes me realise how fortunate most of us are to be referred 'under the 2 week referral' and without a thought are able to have the mammogram and ultra sound at this appointment - it's only reading your post that we learn it is not always possible.
Please get in touch with them, explain your past and see what can be done.
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