The operation

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So in   5 days time I have the operation to remove the tumour - randomly known as Ian.

Why in the last few days have I become incredibly tired and emotional ??
Did anyone else feel the same?
  • Former Member
    Former Member in reply to Former Member

    LeoLady, I have a long word that I reserve for times like this: F***ETY****F***!!!!!!! 

    You poor lady!! I really cannot beleive this is happening again!!! 

    For once, words fail me :-(

    Huge hugs.

    xXx

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    Former Member in reply to Former Member

    Leolady you poor love going through all this and to listen to some idiot telling you that your lucky its not 20 or 30 years ago words fail me as think the best part of him went down to pan when he was conceived ,Sorry for being rude  but this makes me so mad ,sending you huge hugs xxx Fran xx

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    Former Member in reply to Former Member

    Simba, Bigguy And mrsox(nice to see you to see you nice)

    As we drove home hubby was a little do ya think that was a good idea losing plot? It’s not like you?


    Well I did and I will and I’m going to because


    This is my body ‘wet behind the ears’ doc


    Simba you made me giggle with the best part and pan


    I try always to be Mrs Positive on this site and Mrs Galloping through it


    But thanks to Mr Nappy Rash doc I hit a big low. But my besties on here just knew how to lift me up.


    You raise me up so I can stand on mountains


    And I was going to be so sensible 


    Hope this reads well as tears are falling like a waterfall. Hubby is errr shall I pour you a wine? No bring the bottle with a straw 


    Thank you all in so many ways


    Take care 


    Leolady xxxxx

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    Former Member in reply to Former Member

    Leolady this is what really worries me about my op next week. I told surgeon I've enough boob spare so make sure you take more than needed as once is enough let alone 3 times. All you ladies really make me more aware of what i need or should be saying to the 'professionals' xx

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    Former Member in reply to jacks77

    Jacks77, Bigguy is mighty fine thank you. All goes downhill from tomorrow. Onc appointment tomorrow, bloods & road trip to Sheffield Children’s Hospital with youngest on Weds, wig Thurs & chemo Friday!! What fun!!

    Chemo will be nowhere near as bad as you think - honest. The waiting and thinking beforehand is by far the worst. 

    There’s a chemotherapy club thread but I’m not able to tag :-( It’s really helpful

    Fill the next few days doing fun stuff and put chemo in a box on a high shelf until the 15th.

    xXx

  • Former Member
    Former Member in reply to Former Member

    Leolady, sometimes the plot has to be lost!! 

    Hope he goes home and thinks long & hard about your consultation. He might think you were a bit bonkers (so what?? You were completely justified) BUT, he SHOULD be thinking how he’d feel if it was his wife, mum or sister going through the same. 

    Also, 20-30 years ago, he might well have been punched by yours or someone’s Mister!! 

    xXx

  • Here's a tag for the Chemo Club !!

    You lot certainly brighten my day - completely bonkers the lot of you!!

    Hugs xx

    Karen 

  • Former Member
    Former Member in reply to toxophilite

    This certainly describes us lot in here

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    Former Member in reply to toxophilite

    Bigguy

    Bloody whinge bag I am and you shovelling shit like there no tomorrow 


    Sorry lovely 


    Will be with you. 


    Leolady

  • Hi Bigguy

    I’m sure you’re right, now I know the start date my mind is all over the place, I just need to get it all started.

    I’m off to the wig shop on Wednesday, Monday is the 3 hr appt with the chemo nurses, Tuesday nuclear bone scan, another 4 hours at the hospital and then Thursday is the start day.  I will take a look at the thread you’ve mentioned. I posted on the January chemo club re the EC type of chemo, it may be the same one. 


    I’ve got a list of bits to get from looking on here, have you got any suggestions for me please?


    Hope all of your appointments go well this week xxxx