Hi. My wife has recently been diagnosed with multiple myeloma about 45 days ago. It seems that the earth just opened up and everything has fallen into this big hole. We haven't told anyone about this yet and I just felt the need to reach out.
Hi and a warm welcome to the Macmillan Online Community but sorry that you needed to find us and I am especially sorry to hear about your wife’s Myeloma diagnosis.
A cancer diagnosis in the family brings many questions, lots of confusion and stress but talking with other people who are on the same type of journey will help you navigate this rollercoaster.
I was diagnosed back in 1999 with a rare incurable type of Lymphoma so I do understand the journey you and your wife are on but Myeloma is rather different from my NHL.
The Community is organised into dedicated support groups so can I recommend you join our supportive Myeloma group, this will be a good place to connect with others navigating the same type of cancer journey both as patient and family.
To join a group just click on the link above then choose 'click to join' or 'join' (depending on the device you're using) on the page that opens. Then you can introduce yourself by putting up a ‘New Thread’ or hit the box with the X on the top right (phones) you could just copy and paste the text from this your first post. You can also join in with existing ‘Discussions’ by clicking on 'reply'.
Talking with others caring for family and friends will help a lot so do check out our Family and friends group as you will connect with others walking the same journey supporting family and friends through their cancer journey.
It’s always good to talk and the Macmillan Support Services provides lots of information, support, financial guidance or just a listening ear.
It’s always good to talk and the Macmillan Support Services provides lots of information, support, financial guidance or just a listening ear.
Most services are open 8am to 8pm, 7 days a week and it's free to call on 0808 808 00 00 have a look by Clicking here to see what is available and we also have our Ask an Expert section, but do allow two working days for replies from our expert team.
All the very best
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