Hi, my mum has recently been diagnosed with stage 4 cancer. Currently primary cause unknown. Its in her lung, rib, lymph nodes, liver, scalp, brain and they suspect colon too. We are told that it's rare. Considering how widespread it is shes looking really well and Drs are cant really make sense of whats going on. They are unable to offer her any form of treatment and can't give us a timescale. It's really important to us that we make the most of the time we have but not having an idea is difficult. Has anyone experienced anything similar? Can anyone give a rough idea? Obviously I'm aware everyone is different x
Hi and welcome to the Online Community, although I am sorry to see you finding us and so sorry to hear about your mum.
The question that at tones can not be answered :(
A cancer diagnosis can bring a lot of stress, confusion and questions but talking with people who are on the same journey can help a lot.
Can I direct you to this link to our very supportive Supporting Someone with Incurable Cancer group as this would be a good places where you can connect with others support family through their cancer journey but more importantly the carers care for each other.
Just follow the link I have created then hit the ‘Join This Group’ tab just under the main group name, then go to the 'Start a Discussion' tab and set up your very own Discussion and introduce yourself to the group and ask your questions.
You may find our various Macmillan Support Line Services to be helpful - call them on 0808 808 00 00 This free service covers Emotional Support, Practical Information. Clinical Information, Financial Support and Work Guidance mostly open 8.00 to 8.00 but check the link.
We also have our ‘Ask an Expert’. section where you can post questions to our mostly Volunteer Experts but please allow 2 working days to get a reply.
All the best.
