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Hi girls, you can both create a new topic (headline) then you could chat to each other, do you know how to do that? jackie xxxxxxxxxxx

Right girls, go to the bottom of the page, below your reply, you have got enter tags, just below that, its says create your own topic, click on that, the rest is simple, write the headline that you want to put up, then press submit, think thats right.... good luck, happy chatting, hope you make special ood friends. jacks xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Dear sue and jen, I wish you both well, sue my sincere condolences to you on the loss of your hubby, jen keep fighting, their are really loving caring people here, to help you both, thinking of you both jackie xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Hi Henrietta b thanks for the reply, My Mum got her diagnosis at the beginning of December and we were aaway for a month at the time. She was offered a Mac nurse but refused. She has already stated that she will not go into our local Macmillan Hospice as that is where we lost my Dad to Stomach cancer 11 years ago and her brother at the end of last year. I will fill in my profile, thanks for the advice, Best Regards
Melanie.

Dear Crispy Sue, thanks for the lovely reply it is helpful to know that others have experienced this too, there is a lot of guilt about 'answering back' becuase the person is ill and the possibility that the relationship could break down, just when they need you the most. As i said it is almonst a way of taking the anger out on someone else, especially as she is bottling it all up by not talking to anyone. I'm so sorry about your husband, i hope that he did manage to say some kind words to you before he died and recognise the love and care that you gave him. Best regards
Melanie P.S you are doing great on the computer, keep it up!

Hi Julia B, my Mum has lung cancer but i am not sure what stage she is at, possibly 3-4 as i have looked up the type of chemo that she is on. If you have seen my previous message when I joined yesterday, she is refusing to speak to anyone or discuss it and wants to keep it a secret. I understand the feeling of being helpless and the only support that I can offer you is just to be there whenever she wants you, she will probably be feeling very lonely. i know that my Mum is lonely but she has not got any close friends and only really mixes with two of her brothers, so in a way there is more pressure on me, although my brother is around she protects him, so I get all of her frustration and anger. I am feeling a bit stronger today and am lucky that i have a supportive husband who listens to me and lets me have a cry to him. You need to take care of your self too and take up any offers of support from your network of freinds and relatives, people offer things and they genuinely mean it, take care and best regards Melanie

hi everyone finding site bit dis heartin have posted a few time but hardly get a reponse i know life is hard when you have cancer or live with someone who has this horrable disease. I was told last sept i had cancer over the phone by my doctor after suffering with pain in different places. After several visit and test at the hosp i been told i have a rare cancer angio sarcoma i have sarcomas in spline lung and most of bones in body they cant tell me what stage i am at as its never been treated cant tell me how long i can live caus never treated i had radio ther on back that helped pain gone now but i ahd 3 months chemo to be told last week cancer has spread in the lungs so now i been re fered back to top spec in lond for what to do next its taken its toll on marriage we arenearly at sparation as my husband feels he is bein punished in life its all about him what about me i wish we could make people understand whatits like dealing with this disease never knowing what tomorrow will bring. my advice for you all is too talk as much as poss to anyone who will listen.. Can i ask all of you whenyou tolf family and friends you had cancer how the reacted i know at 1st its a shock but when i was told fri they dont know what to do next i have the support from family but friends seems to have put distance between us like they dont want to know so i guess these arent true friends. If anyone has any info on my cancer please tell me.