BOB JK My diary of kidney cancer (to be continued)

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Hi, My name is Bob and I live in Cambridgeshire. I am married with an 8 yr old daughter and three older step sons. Up untill the end of last year everything was tickety boo having recently moved to a new house which we love. Work was busy but enjoyable. I am Manager of an electrical companys maintenance department and my Wife, Linda was enjoying her job as a Nurse. The three boys are buying there own house nearby and all work locally.
In November I went to my Doctors with a small "cyst" on my chest. After a couple of referals and many Xrays, pet scans, bone scans and CT scans I was told the news everybody dreads. My lump on the chest was a secondary cancer of which the primary was in my left Kidney. I was fast tracked to the Royal Brompton, under the expert care of Mr Laddas who informed a long and complicated operation would need to be carried out to remove the bone tumor and surrounding bone which involved two ribs,my collar bone and chest bone. I did not have time to panic, the operation was carried out the next day over 10 hrs. After nearly two weeks in the Brompton I am recovering well from this op but I have since been told that the Cancer is in both kidneys as well as small mets in both lungs. It seems at the moment further ops are out the question and i have been put on the drug Sutent. I am one week into this and so far so good. I do not know what the future holds but I have to remain positive.
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    FormerMember in reply to FormerMember

    Heard it today too on the car radio, weird cos I truly  thought of You, Lady Linda and Katie xxxxxxxxxxxx

    (((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((BIG FAT HUGS))))))))))))))))))))))))))

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    Dear Bob, Thinking of you and your lovely family and sending you all much love and huge (((((((((((((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))))))))
    Quill xxxxxxxxxxx

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    thinking of you as allways bob jk...

    dont know what to say...

    but all the best to you and your family ... everyone on this site will be thinking of you and sending love and hugs...

  • I just want to wish you and your family strength, fortitude, patience, good, comfort, and above all, love, coming with many big (((((((((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))))))))

    Moomy

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    FormerMember in reply to moomy

    Hi Bob

    Lordy, what a decision you have to make, I think you have everyone's support and love here to make the right decision for you - you certainly have all of mine.

    I can so relate to Kate - my father was in the same position as you when I was her age. Having as strong a father as she has, am sure she will pull through, even though it is so incredibly hard for all of you right now.

    Enormous heartfelt hugs and best wishes to all the family

    xx

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    xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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    ooooooooooxxxxxxxxxxooooooooooooo

  • XXXXXXXXStrength hugsXXXXXXXX

    Kay

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    FormerMember in reply to Thewife

    Thinking of you Bob, Linda and Kate.

    Sending big hugs your way.

    xxx

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    Bob Linda and Katie

    thinking of you all today !

    xxx