My mum has just been diagnosed with bowel cancer and was told a few weeks ago she had a couple of months left.
she lives alone and I stay around 1,5 hours away and have a young child.
I work and run a business.
mum is all alone.
I can only see her around 2-3 times a week.
it’s just me, we lost my sister a year ago and mum doesn’t want help from anyone else.
I don’t know what to do. I feel so sad she just sits on her own all day and she is so tired. I can see her feeling sad but don’t know what to do.
the guilt is incredible and I’m not sure what to do.
should I leave work and spend more time with her?
I feel it is the right thing to do but worried about the consequences after she passes.
I feel so much pressure to make decisions as mum won’t do it.
I’m just really overwhelmed.
