My husband died in my arms on the 2nd May (2009) - what happens now?

Looks like I am just going to have to bring too many bags if that is as much help as you are going to be!   Unless anyone has another suggestion I will bring jeans & trousers to go with a top and boots & shoes for if the weather is wet or dry!  Oh dear - I cannot travel light lol xxx

ha ha Ailsa xx

how about these suitcases, Lynne?

Fantastic Sue xx , i want them , now i really must get dressed and get moving lol xxx or maybe i wont , i cant make a desision today lol xxx

nor me! need to take the dogs out but still in dressing gown - shall i set a trend?

Oh Plesee do but we need a photo lol (real one ) xxx

Morning everyone

Ooh cases out already lol!!!

I ll bring jeans and a top and trousers if you re all bringing trousers. My camera too of course. Do I need credit cards lol!! Probably if you lot are shopping!!

Got my sat nav ready!! I have used it a few times when I ve met up with a friend a few weekends, it is great. So sure it will get me to Newcastle no problems!!

Just sorting the tickets for Paul s fundraising night, feeling a bit panicky over it all but sure it will be ok. Liam and Nat are excited about it. Need to see people now to get all the money in.

Well Patricia has passed her year, Ailsa you ve done 10 months quietly on Tuesday and 10 months for me today!! Cant believe it really but like Lesley said listening to others we have moved on, not had much choice have we lol but thanks god for this site. I know we ve said it soooo many times but it has got us through all those lonely nights and continues to do so xxx In that respect we are all very lucky and have something special.

Anyway enough of all the slush lol, have a lovely day everybody. I m waiting for Nat to get up so will do some tidying then off shopping

Helen xxx

Hi all, sounds likje you are all in high spirits this morning. I am afraid I am not but hey ho that'slife. I just want to tell you all how very very much I HATE my job and all it stands for. I had a verbal altercation with the site matron  and think that she ius going to report me. Well let her.  I have filled out an incident report (IR1) and have also written a letter to my immediate line manager. A pre-emptive strike if you like. I refuse to be treated like a doormat any longer. The trouble is, I now cannot stop crying grrrrrrr...... I know she is only trying to do her job but then SO WAS I !!!!!!!!  I so want to tell them where they can stick their job.

Sorry for the rant. I feel better for being able to vent. Thank you for allowing that.

Such a shame that my day/night ended like that after the lovely time I had with Ailsa. Anyway Ailsa there was no point in knocking anyone down. I was not keen to have a red car lol lol lol

Apart from that I am ok. Have a good day everyone. Take care.

Love and angel hugs x x x Patricia x x x

Helen remember we are with the shopping queens , Gayle and Lesley lol , i think there may be more talking than shopping tho , with the sound of Patricias and Ailsas meet lol and i know Gayle and I never shut up whilst we we;re topgether (more her than me ) ha ha sorry Gayle just joking . Have fun with the prom dress shopping Helen , i'm deffinatly going now ... Lynne xxx

Ah Patricia , so sorry you had a crappy shift , i'm sure you'll feel better when you've had a sleep , but you've done the right thing , get in there first . Big hugs hun and take care , vent away xxxxx