My husband died in my arms on the 2nd May (2009) - what happens now?

bren, what a fab photo! love it!

Sue xx

Bren - is that a bear with a sore head???????  And a penguin with a suitcase off on hols??????

Good evening all.  I had a bit of time in the garden as well today Helen.  I was feeling ready to tackle a few jobs and decided to replenish Chris's bird feeders.  The shoots for the bulbs are appearing already.  I have 2 badly broken plant pots from the cold so I will ahve to get them changed.

Gayle - how I remember this time of year and Chris's tax returns when he was self employed.  At least I only had to do one.  Good luck with them.

I was able to get some fresh flowers on Chris's grave on Friday afternoon and it looks so much better now.  I was doing exactly the same thing as you Judi and telling him all about our meet while I worked on the flowers.

Bren I will have to make sure I put some photos from Liverpool on here once I have been - what a shame you & Dan missed it.

I had best get off as I need to do some ironing before bed tonight.  Take care everyone.  Ailsa xxx

Oh and I was going to say I am loving the pictures tonight - well done Sue & Bren xx

A thought just came to me for Judi.  Meant to post this earlier.  Have you thought about doing work for Macmillan?  I do book reviews for them through this website.  I have done a few and they post them out to you, you read them and then tell them what you think.  I have two on the go at the moment that I need to get my finger out and get back to them lol.

Gayle xxx

Gayle - you are a very resourceful lady - how did you hear about/get into that?  I think something like that would be excellent. 

Judi x

HI Lynne

yea v funeral is on wed 10am every thing sorted it taken so long with christmas and new year  the weather not helped to

love to you

take care love janice xxx

HI Lynne

yea v funeral is on wed 10am every thing sorted it taken so long with christmas and new year  the weather not helped to

love to you

take care love janice xxx

Judi - if you click on get involved then go and register at cancer voices.  I have been doing it for a while and two of the publications have been full books and have been relevant to my experiences but the one I got last week is about breast cancer and its like a booklet.  They are always looking for help.  There are loads of different types of vacancies some are more involved that others.  There was a really good one a while back which was to do with generating fundraising ideas which I would have liked to have done because I have done a lot of charity fundraising in the past and enjoyed it but it was too much time involved for me at the moment.  Like I said though there are all different types of ways you can help online and the people at Macmillan are great to deal with.  I got one book just when Wully died and they were lovely and supportive.

Gayle xx

Evening Everone,   Well it's been a nice day here i have been to cemmy to put more flowers on, it's also the first time i have been this year with fresh flowers they are forecasting more snow here on Wed and Thurs i do hope they are wrong. I had a phone call from Darren today and they are moving on to Coff Harbour for two days so travelling by bus over night and they have a few more trips booked but he say's he will have to get some work soon as money going fast, he also get the backs of his legs burnt yesterday and he say's they are sore, it would be nice to even get a wee bit sun i am not greedy.

 Judi it's funny you use to come down my way for hols and i use to come to Banchory for mine when i was a wee girl a long time ago, but not been for a few years now i loved it up there. Lynne and Helen glad you had a good night out last night. I have just done some housework today and then Kim Grierson and Charlie were in. Well my usual i better get off to bed as working in the morning.  Luv and Hugs to you all Fiona xxxxxxxxxxx