My husband died in my arms on the 2nd May (2009) - what happens now?

Evening Ladies,

Well I have finally packed!!!  I am exhausted but it is done.  I will do my big clean next weekend and then the day before I move I can finish off packing up the last things.  Whew - I will be moaning shortly about unpacking them all lol!!!

I had a rubbish night last night as I just felt so emotional and so lonely.  I was watching X Factor and using the laptop and then just started feeling sorry myself.  My friends last night were Mr TV and Mr Laptop and if felt rubbish.  Although I have loads of friends and family I just want to be with Wully on a Saturday night.  Feel a bit better tonight but I think that is because it is a new week tomorrow.  I hate weekends!

Ailsa, glad you had a great time out shopping - its sounded lots of fun and I am sure just the tonic you were needing.  I know what you mean about ticking boxes and hopefully you will feel a bit better by the end of November when it is all in place.

Helen - getting too old for boozy nights lol (luckily you can't hit me through a computer hee hee!).  Glad you had a nice time.

Hello to everyone else and hope you have a good week.

Gayle x

Morning all well i'll try again, the lap top seems to be shorting out somewhere , i can type a message and then suddenely it will just vanish , i did it so many times yesterday , its lucky it didn't go through the window lol . Seems to be ok at the moment so i'll try again . Gayle i know what you mean about the sat night in and sat on your own (with laptop ) i hate it now , and i do anything to go out , i know its not so easy for you with the little ones . I went out justt for a couple on sat afternoon with my daughter and i did what Helen did and ended up staying a lot longer , i checked my moblie yesterday to see what time i phoned a taxi , my daughter guessed about 9 i thought it was a little later it was actully 10 past 11 and yes Helen i suffered to !!! .Judi i'm ready to phone my complaint in today , i've got date and names wrote down , but unfortumately i,ve got to wait till lunch time , the number doesn't open till 9 and i'm on a first aid course at 9 , i'm coming home in the lunch break to do it . Patricia thanks for the tips for today , Patricia was giving me lesons on thurs on avoiding awkward questions , i was rubbish at first but i think i got better eventually , today will be a good test . AIlsa glad you had a good weekend with your sister , when is the wedding ? did you get your outfits . Fiona i hope your feeling a little better today ,, the baby really will help i'm sure . Hope Kim is feeling a little more comfotable now .

Anyway i'll get ready for this course , hopefuly we dont have to stand up and say who we are and everything , but Patricia has taught me well , hope i can remember it all .

Have a good day everybody . Hi Sue ,xx

Lynne xxx

Here's hoping this message goes now , i dont know weather to take it in for repair or just get a new one decisions decisions ....

yippeee it worked ........

morning, Lynne

Good luck with the phone call - if all else fails, ask for the MD; then threaten them with going to the press. It usually works a treat!

When my daughter had issues with the building society, she arrived at their offices first thing one morning and threatened to stay there all day and tell every customer about hr problem with them . after half an hour, when they realised she meant it, they sorted things out right away.

Go for it, girlie!

sue x

Thanks Sue xxxx

Lynne, I hope you managed to get through this morning without too much trauma.  Good luck with complaint today. Hope it gets sorted. x x Patricia x x

Morning Lynne,

Good luck with round three you tell them. Keeping my fingers crossed that your laptop behaves from now on. I had a simular prob with mine last week got really frustrated with it.

Love and (((((HUGS))))) to all.
Quill xxxx

Good luck from me too Lynne.  Sue, are you wandering round in your clean slippers looking at all your beautiful new floors?  Gayle - way to go - hope that you can have a few days off before it all starts again. 

Pouring with rain here today, have been on Facebook, have written some e-mails, have been here, have rearranged photos and ornaments etc on shelves - do I need to do some ironing?  Not yet I think, there must me something else I can do first!

Speak later - Judi xx 

Judi, come and help me with my wallpaper hanging x x Patricia x x

Patricia

On my way as we speak (if only I could) I love wallpaper hanging because the results are so quick and you can see how it is going to look.  Have to admit though that I would have to be your apprentice - I was not allowed to be the actual 'hanger' - that was Ed the Perfectionist's job!!  I got to be the one standing at the bottom of the ladder holding it away from the wall until he was happy with the position.  But I would love to come and help you.  Good luck and remember to always check that it is the right way up!!

Love and hugs

Judi xxx