Mum's death.

We are all in shock still with how quickly she deteriorated.  Got to Register her death tomorrow and I'm dreading it.  I know she's not suffering anymore but we still miss her like crazy

Lots of hugs. Look after each other. It’s a very hard time. Lost both my parents in the last two years and it’s still now so very hard. 

Sending big hugs back.  We are doing,  making sure dad is  ok n has company so he's not on his own 

Hello lovely - I am new here too x

I lost my Mum on 19th August - my mum was diagnosed in Feb - but she had radio that actually worked on her bladder cancer - we were nearly celebrating, when on 2 August - we had found out it had spread, aggressively, to a lot of other places, and her Liver. we had a few days also trying to feed her up for treatment, but she couldn't even keep water down. 

She deteriorated over a matter of days and we had my brother, aunt and Dad there too at the end.

I just wanted to reach out and say - I know exactly how you feel, and I am so sorry both of us are going through it. It was HORRIBLE watching mum in pain at the end, but the speed it all happened has still left me very very emotional.

If you ever want to chat/ can't sleep/ want to talk to a stranger just know I am here, and probably feeling all the things you are too. Sending loads of hugs,

Jenna x

Hi, 

I just wanted to reply to your message as we lost Mum on 25th August and similar to yourself she deteriorated quicker than we expected.  Leaving 3 days after all treatment stopped.  
nothing can prepare to watch your mum go through that journey. 
We've just had the funeral and I know feel like I'm right back to the day she died.  

So I feel your pain and can completely relate to what you are going through. 

Sending big hugs to u.  We had mum's funeral on the 22nd n it still doesn't feel real.  I know she's not in pain anymore and wasn't when she passed but it still feels like a bad dream.  We included a favourite memory of my dad falling down the stairs top to bottom carrying the Christmas decs and landing on his back.  She opened the living room door and shouted 'I hope u haven't broke my decorations he was fine n so we're the decs in the eulogy.  And made a donation to the Macmillan cancer support website I hope u r all doing as well as can be xx