Help at night 1 reply
My husband gets up in the night to go to the toilet. He is confused, unsteady on his feet and upset.then angry when I have to help him. It's hard to get him back to bed. Can I get help at night
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My husband gets up in the night to go to the toilet. He is confused, unsteady on his feet and upset.then angry when I have to help him. It's hard to get him back to bed. Can I get help at night
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