Hi everyone, was just diagnosed Thursday morning with a soft tissue sarcoma in my left breast, after originally being diagnosed with a ruptured cyst and told they'd see me in 6 months. By the time I received that letter the thing had doubled, so I called back up and asked to come back in. A failed attempted aspiration and a second biopsy later, different story! I'm 37, F, have a 4 year old boy and an amazing partner. Have been urgently referred and awaiting a PET and CT scan at the Royal Marsden to know more. So many questions and so many worries. Terrified but putting on a hella brave face for now. I've been briefly prepared for likely chemo and a mastectomy from the initial breast clinic, but awaiting contact from the Marsden who have me on their MDT next week - the lump is already very large and growing
Well done for chasing up when your lump did not follow the initial diagnosis.
There are quite a few "varieties" of sarcoma, my wife's is Leiomyosarcoma - for her is was likely a fibroid but it was only found when it had gone to secondaries in her lung - long story.
Good you have being referred to the Marsden, sarcoma care is provided by a number of specialist centres. Always a bit interesting when Janice sees a new doctor and we spot them looking up LMS on google.
Janice actually had a hysterectomy before she was diagnosed but after diagnosis she had two rounds of chemo. The first caused some other issues and had to be stopped, however the doctors managed to fix that and then the second chemo she had rendered her cancer stable, still there but no evidence of progression now for over 10 years.
Hope you hear from the team soon.
<<hugs>>
Steve
Thanks for replying Steve. Rightly or wrongly I've done heaps of reading since Thursday but do understand there are many subtypes of sarcoma that all behave slightly differently so I think I'll feel a little more settled once I've been to the Marsden and have more information and know exactly what I'm dealing with.
I'm far less worried about me and far more worried about everyone around me if I'm honest.
It's comforting to hear that even though your wife's type of sarcoma had spread to her lung, that you are now 10 years down the line.
Right now if I don't distract my brain, I start wondering if this might be my last Christmas with my little boy. Pushing those thoughts out is an hourly battle! But for now I'm just trying to enjoy a last few days of 'normal' before life changes completely.
Do you recall what the early stages were like for you as a partner supporting your wife? Did you have other support from family?
When Janice was first diagnosed it almost came like a bit of relief since the doctors had spent a lot of time trying to find out what was happening and initially they were keen on a watch and wait to work out what was happening.
Janice's brother was quite helpful but his wife had been through a different issue with cancer and struggled a bit with her emotions over that it felt.
One thing I really struggled with is that Janice was clear she was not interested in getting a prognosis and as our son was quite young I was tied up thinking how would I care for him after she was gone. We had a lot of support from his school that was very helpful but also a really good friend was there for us whenever we needed and that was priceless.
<<hugs>>
Steve
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