Hello everyone
I am 10 weeks post op prostate removal.
I knew about going to have E.D. but not prepared for had I would feel when got it.
I will find out Weds if nerve spared but aware wont get an erection in the near future even with medication.
Ive read alot about vaccum pumps high success rate.
Im suffering terrible with insecurity and anxitey due to not giving me wife full penetration sex which she said she needs.
Problem is she came out of menopause last year when for 5 years did not want sex now she is highly sexed and today admitted she wants penetration penis sex all the time.
I fear if I dont she will have an affair and that will be the end of our marraige.
So after all that does using vaccum pump work enough for sex !!!!!!!
Any experinces and advice gladly received
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