I have a date for my RALP, 2 weeks! It's come a little quicker than I'd thought and looking for advice. I am anxious about the catheter to begin with. What tends to be provided on discharge? I'm considering getting some sort of fixation device? Has anyone used these or do you tend to leave hospital with one?
I'm thinking I'll leave hospital with catheter bags etc so not sure what else will be helpful, apart from kegels, baggy pants, laxatives and a bucket!
Any advice on what might be useful will be gratefully accepted.
Thank you
Robert
Hi Robert
My husband ( aged 60) had his RALP on 10th July. As the date drew nearer it became much more of a reality and “what ifs “. But once the day came it was full steam ahead with a positive mindset and a “let’s get this done”
He was in hospital ( Wirral area) at 07.30am and was first in list - so by the time the staff had done their paperwork / observations / preliminary checks he was ready for theatre at 9-15am
Petes op lasted 5.5 hrs as he had tricky scar tissue from repeated infections over past year - everyone is different so try not to worry about operation time
He has 6 small scars from surgery which have healed beautifully
He was discharged home the next day . He was given
anti Embolism stockings to wear for 4 weeks post surgery
28 days worth of enoxaparin sub- cut injections ( to reduce risk of clots) and a sharps box - the hospital showed Pete how to give himself these injections - really straightforward
cather was to be in situ for 14 days so was given 14 single use night bags and one day bag ( day bag needs changing after 7days)
supply of laxatives ( senna and lactulose )
pain relief of codeine and paracetamol
There was no district nurse involvement - in our area you are provided with information leaflets and contact numbers if there are any issues
On the second day home Pete received a supply of 6 packs of continence pads ( 30 pads in each pack )
He had his catheter removed on 24th July. To date still requires continence pads across 24 hrs
one of the members of this group recommended the Prostate Cancer UK group - you can apply for a free pack for post surgery - I really recommend this pack !
We also have a orthotex pillow which Pete finds really helpful to sit on post surgery due to discomfort in his rear end post surgery
its still early days in his recovery process - everyone’s different
next step is review with consultant which is generally 7 weeks post surgery ( once they have had an MDT ) to discuss results from biopsies taken during surgery - and to review his PSA level - this will be done before consultant review
Pete still certain he made the right choice to go for RALP - it was right for him
Good Luck with your surgery - sending you lots of positive thoughts xxxxx
I remember Huffies did a brilliant post 4 months ago which you might find helpful.
Pads and what you need to know
Please let us know how you get on and all the best for 2 weeks time.
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