Category 1b melanoma

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Hello

I'm new here, I just wanted to share with others who have a partner who has had a melanoma cat 1b diagnoses. I check my partner once a month but am so worried I'll miss something as there are thousands of moles to check.

Jules

  • Hello Jules!

    I am sharing the same diagnosis as your partner.

    Since then I m feeling I m checking all little moles and over thinking, which I noticed Is not the most helpful thing to do.

    After the diagnosis for you partner, was there a plan in place with the multidisciplinary doctors team? 

    Perhaps ask them to share what are the next steps in this process, because your partner will need regular check ups, to 3 or 6 months at the beginning for the first 2-3 years.

    1. You are entitled to get this information from them, don't be afraid to ask them anything you have on your mind.

    Stay optimistic and have hope that everything will be OK.

    Wish you all the best for you and your partner.

  • Hi

    Thank you so much for your reply, I agree remaining optimistic is a good call Thumbsup

    My partner is covered in moles and at first my checks would take forever,  now I get it done much quicker, i was just so worried I'd miss something initially but have settled into the monthly check routine now.

    There are two checks in the first year and then once a year for the next 4 years.

    We've bought all the gear now, every colour of UV tops, hats etc.

    I wish you all the best in your journey and thank you again.

    Jules