Advice please

From my personal experience, make the call. You will at least get an answer of where u are in the system. Well done on the weight loss. I know it's not easy when your mind is worrying. Hugs

Ring the appointment centre at your hospital to find out if you have been placed on a waiting list . I hope you're ok

Thank you.youve confirmed what I thought.

I like to control my thoughts so it doesn't control me.

Thank you.youve confirmed my gut.ill phone tomorrow. 

One of my nurses gave me advice and it stuck with me...she said something like..when diagnosed with cancer you feel u have no control because it's all in the hands oh the doctors and nursing team. She said take control of what you can. This was just before my operation...so I came home and took the time making my nest, because I knew I would be in recovery and ko energy for housework etc. I also did my research ( from British, good sources) so I had a list of all i wanted yo ask the consultant or nurses. So take control of what u can. And your phone call is the start...hugest hugs sweety...always here if u need a shoulder..

Agree thank you

Definitely call them. I work for the NHS myself .  Call the hospital and ask for the appointment centre. 

Thank you.ive just done it, spoke to consultants secretary, couldn't find my name in any lists.shes going to look into it and get an appointment sent.

That is what happened to me in January. And like u I didn't want to bother them. Learn this lesson..admin is shocking , nurses and doctors amazing. So if ever in doubt don't dither just ring...hugest hugs...

NHS is amazing. So very grateful to the wonderful staff.

I agree.if you don't hear make that call.im glad I did.

Thank you. ( it also takes away the niggling worrying in my mind)