Hi my husband is due an op on Friday on left kidney 5cm mass by keyhole part removal or open if all needs to be removed, he won’t talk about it but has started getting really bad tempered saying things like I can do a lot after op, all because I said to him he won’t be able to lift anything heavy and should take it easy. For a few weeks. Although he never shows his feelings we can see he’s worried about it. He is also awaiting biopsy results after a torbt op as he has lesions on in. Bladder. I am worried sick about op but his attitude is making me so angry nothing I do is good enough and the least little thing starts him off . I just don’t know what to do to help him . Has anyone any ideas ?
