It's been a while since I've posted on here.
Been in remission for 7 months now and all is going well. Recently I've been giving a lot of thought to those who where there for me in the tough times.
I should point out that I encourage those around me to be strong in order to get me though the worst. My friends have been so good on my journey but my family has been terrible.
Im a single guy, so when I say family I mean parents, brothers and wider family. I have to be honest, I feel they weren't there for me and continue to not understand the severity of what has happened. I'm angry with them all. For not being there, emotionally.
How do I get over that resentment???
Hi Koopmiester ….. I am sorry to hear about the lack of support you had from your family.
Over my 24+ years I have heard similar stories…… a lot of family and friends fail to appreciate that intensity of the treatment you have been through….. and this can result in insufficient support.
You either have to talk this through with your family and unpack it….. and in doing this clear the air.
This would obviously be a challenging thing to do.
It may help to talk this through so the Macmillan Support Line is open between 8am-8pm (timings may differ across services) 7 days a week on 0808 808 00 00…… this service provides practical information, emotional support or just a listening ear.
Talking to people ‘face to face’ can be very helpful so do check to see if you have any Local Macmillan Support in your area, do also check for a local Maggie's Centre as these folks are amazing.
