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A bit of a roller coaster, thought l had an ulcer mid August, GP just kept prescribing antibiotics, didn’t clear so l pushed for a face to face appointment mid September. Then since then lve had a biopsy and told on Monday it is a T1 ulcer. Went for CT scan this week, MRI next week then chat with consultant which now is a telephone one. Am still shell shocked and thinking the worst. I can’t tell my children until l know what is happening. Googling everything and getting myself even more scared. Are CT and MRI routine and is it usual to have a telephone conversation about next steps rather than face to face? And reading into it a T1 is early stages ( l have never smoked or drank alcohol) ? Would love to hear anyone else’s experience. Thanks 

update on treatment

so have had my pre op assessments done and surgery booked for 3rd November.At the pre op assessment l was told the CT scan was clear as was the MRI scan and surgery will be to remove tumour on tongue and 40 lymph nodes too check. So l slowly got my head round this all, only to get a call this Friday from registrar to say that MRI scan shows an “adulteration near the thyroid gland” but there are no lesions or nodes but l need an ultrasound to check just in case. Now I’ve gone into overdrive and panicking because  of something else. Is this normal that diagnosis keeps on changing from the original? 

  • Hi Teacosy. Welcome to our select little club though it's not one I would wish on anybody. The diagnosis you describe is somewhat unclear. the TNM grading system is indeed used for cancer. T1 means the tumour is less than 2cm in size. Have they actually told you it is cancer rather than the ulcer you describe?

    For cancer, yes CT and MRI are pretty standard. They have different sensitivities which is why they are both routinely used. 

    It does seem strange to have a telephone consultation to discuss results though I should think if there is any further action to be taken you would be. called straight in.

    I might suggest you leave Dr Google well alone. There is a lot of very out of date, and otherwise inaccurate information.

    Post back and let us know what's happening. There are lots of friendly and well informed folk on here to give you a hand

    Dani 

    Base of tongue cancer. T2N0M0 6 weeks Radiotherapy finished January 2019

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  • Hi Teacosy123 welcome to the forum.

    MRI and CT are very standard, its what i had to diagnose my cancer.

    Im a little confused when you say 'T1 ulcer' is it definitely cancer?

    I am guessing it is the pandemic that has caused your GP to keep prescribing antibiotics without actually seeing you, but i think you need a face to face with the consultant. I dont know if he wants to do it via phone because of covid?

    Finally stay away from google.

    When i was told i had stage 4 head and neck cancer i googled it to high heaven, and google told me that i had a 21% chance of living more than a year! i was writing my will out and saying good bye to people!.

    However, when i had my face to face with the consultant..he told me that i had a 70% chance of a complete cure... a bit of a contrast to google!

    No drinking or alcohol is a good thing for sure, it might be HPV related.

    Good luck, and let us know how things go please!

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember in reply to Beesuit

    Hiya Dani, thanks for your reply. The biopsy came back last Friday and at my appointment on Monday the consultant said it was cancer - he said it was T1 - he confirmed he couldn’t feel any enlarged glands around my neck or chest but just to be 100% sure he asked for a CT scan and MRI. The diagnosis was a shock as l have never smoked or drank alcohol, my immunity can be a bit low though. I am clinging onto any bit of positivity, am really scared if scams pick up anything even though l am sure there is nothing and each doctor has confirmed they can’t feel any glands. My bloods are also normal - just low on iron. am upset the gp didn’t refer me earlier, but can’t complain at the process after. I’m hoping a telephone call rather than face to face is a good thing.... or it’s Covid-19 related. I have two teenagers but won’t tell them until l know. And lm am getting myself into a right old mess and drifting towards negativity. 

  • Hi Teacosyb123 , best advise I can give you is walk away from Dr Giigkenas my oncologist told me even he a professor couldmgoogke himself dead in minutes ,so yes phone call unusual but under these covid times itbcoukd be possible, Wait and see what the news is  please pop back and let us know. If yiuvare goingbto be a memnerbif our exclusive club which we all hope you arent yiuve made the first step by being in here. Remember keepmiff google most ofvthe indo is unregulated and out  of date .

    regards Hazel 

    Hazel aka RadioactiveRaz 

    My blog is www.radioactiveraz.wordpress.com  HPV 16+ tonsil cancer Now  6 years  post treatment. 35 radiotherapy 2 chemo T2N2NM.Happily getting on with living always happy to help

    2 videos I’ve been involved with raising awareness of HNC and HPV cancers 

    https://www.instagram.com/merckhealthcare/reel/DBs8Y0niJ8N/

  • Hi again. Ok then the scans are to see if there is any spread. I'm not a doctor and only your consultant can answer this but T1 is a small tumour. I had a T2 and my oncologist told me he could cure me. I had radiotherapy only. It's a bumpy ride and I can't pretend it's not a difficult treatment but it doable and 21 months after I finished I am doing well and fairly normal. 

    Where is the cancer on your tongue? They may be able to fix it with just surgery.

    I have a neighbour who had exactly that. The surgeons cut it out and that was that.

    I think you have to wait to see what your consultant has to say and take it from there. It's horrid waiting and there's no point in telling you to not worry but try to keep yourself busy, take a deep breath and stay positive.

    Good luck and stay off Google

    Dani 

    Base of tongue cancer. T2N0M0 6 weeks Radiotherapy finished January 2019

    I BLOGGED MY TREATMENT 

    Macmillan Support Line -  0808 808 00 00 7 days a week between 8am-8pm

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  • Hi just seen your other post I too don’t smoke or drink I was T2N2Nm h p v 16 positive mine was also in 2 lymph nodes well later 2 or more so yes yiu are a T1 it’s early stage various options of treatment .2 years down the line I am living my life to the full I am a wimp and was 61 when diagnosed . Let us know how next few days go honestly once things are explained in full to you it does get easier and there’s quite a few if us in here who’ve been there done it. 

    Dont stress easy to say but I have done it and come through the other side Hazel x

    Hazel aka RadioactiveRaz 

    My blog is www.radioactiveraz.wordpress.com  HPV 16+ tonsil cancer Now  6 years  post treatment. 35 radiotherapy 2 chemo T2N2NM.Happily getting on with living always happy to help

    2 videos I’ve been involved with raising awareness of HNC and HPV cancers 

    https://www.instagram.com/merckhealthcare/reel/DBs8Y0niJ8N/

  • I meant to add that Macmillan have a cancer support line with specialist cancer nurses you can talk to 

    7 days a week, 8am-8pm on 0808 808 00 00.

    If you need some personal contact and feel overwhelmed.

    There are quite a few of us here that can be contacted by private message too. All you have to do is send a friend request by clicking on their profile picture

    Dani 

    Base of tongue cancer. T2N0M0 6 weeks Radiotherapy finished January 2019

    I BLOGGED MY TREATMENT 

    Macmillan Support Line -  0808 808 00 00 7 days a week between 8am-8pm

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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember in reply to TrevW

    Firstly l hope you are doing well, and thank you for responding. Yes lve made the mistake of googling and frightening myself. T1 seems so little compared to what you’ve been through...l will stop Googling  now 

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember in reply to Beesuit

    Thank you for reaching out x

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember in reply to RadioactiveRaz

    Thank you for your advise, much appreciated. I’ve just celebrated my 51st birthday and looking forwards to spending many more with my family xx