Tears

Oh Disney, I'm so sorry. We are here and we are listening whenever you want to just share how you're feeling. Be it sadness, anger, just whatever. I really hope the coming weeks are as comfortable and peaceful for your mum as possible. 

Sending a big virtual hug

Chris 

Oh Disney, I am so sorry to read this. 

As Chris says, we're here for you anytime you need to reach out. You're not alone.

Sending you a huge virtual hug, love and light. Stay strong.

love n hugs

Wee Me xx

Hi Disney,

I'm really sorry to hear you are struggling so much. Tears are fine... you are losing someone really precious, and it is fine to grieve that.  Indeed, it would be very odd if you weren't all over the place.

As the others have said... there is nothing really to say - except that we are here for you.  Nothing we can say will make this next few months better.  It is a bugger of a journey.  I just want to concur that we are standing with you and at least we can say we understand how you are feeling.

Well done for all you have done to date... for making the memories, for looking after your mum, for keeping yourself in one piece.  I know it is agony, but it won't last forever.  Some day the challenges will stop for your mum and you will be able to draw breath and get your head back together.

Are you able to access any counselling?  I managed to get some through the hospice and found it helpful just to talk through how I as feeling with someone each week.  Especially in the last few months it helped me to keep myself together.

Try to look after yourself... 

Big hug.

Pete

Hi Disney

I'm so sorry you are feeling so awful. It can just hit like a tonne of bricks sometimes can't it. I always find I stay mostly strong and accept the place we are at with my dad, and then out of nowhere I feel totally distraught again. 

I hope you are feeling a bit better than you were the other day when you posted this. Thinking of you xx