Hi everyone,
Quite new here, been lurking for a week or so.
Advice or similar experience please ... I've been for my pre-op today and of course, my blood pressure is up. My surgery is scheduled for this Monday 14th Feb.
I very much get white coat syndrome but I'm also affected by anxiety anyway and have been for a few years, it is of course now heightened since my breast cancer diagnosis 2 weeks ago.
The nurse took 4 readings and it gradually came down but not enough for her to be happy. I know if I'm monitored while I'm sleeping, it's normal.
So now she has given me a letter to give to my GP with the readings and asking them to sort out my blood pressure to enable me to have surgery. All she said to me as I think you need some help to get you through this period, I only saw the letter contents because I opened it when I got home.
This gives my GP 3 days to sort this when trying to get a GP appointment is almost impossible anyway! As if diagnosis isn't bad enough to cause anxiety and now this when I just want to get it over and done with.
I'm so worried my surgery will be cancelled last minute. I honestly do not believe I have proper high blood pressure. The hospital want a call from the GP or myself to confirm the outcome.
I just feel rubbish. Help? Advice? Had the same?
Thank you, hope everyone is doing okay and thanks for listening
Hi I was the same as you very very high blood pressure due to white coat syndrome. I bought a blood pressure machine from Boots £20 and monitored my own at home. The results were very different to those at the hospital so I recorded them and showed them to anaesthetist. He was satisfied and had op yesterday. Good luck
The op went very well thank you. The staff were beyond wonderful so if anything like me, you won’t be so scared and blood pressure will drop anyway. Came home same day and,today, just a bit sore and tired. You will be so relieved that the intruder or Colin, as I called him, sounds better than that awful c word. Anyway Colin is now sulking in a laboratory somewhere. All the best
Just wanted to say that sentence about Colin sulking in a lab made me laugh out loud !
Made me laugh too
I need to think of a name for mine now ... it's a good way of dealing with it!
Got a call with GP surgery tomorrow but I've ordered a blood pressure monitor anyway so I can back my case. Just hope it's okay.
Had my surgery on Monday and there was no fuss. about my BP whatsoever!! Slightly annoyed with the pre op assessment nurse who made me even more anxious for no reason. I do wish they’d do some joined up thinking when it comes to our care.
Didnt have the surgeon I was meant to have either - the Professor was “called away” whatever that means and two of us ended up with a lady surgeon who seemed very nice but was likely a locum. Story of the day was the poor woman who was discharged with her cannula still in. I then heard the nurse on the phone to her telling her she’d have to come back in!
Now recovering at home and hoping for clear margins first time so I can get the radiotherapy done. Results in 3-4 weeks. Not feeling too bad but have a cry every so often and sometimes a rage - usually when I’m alone. I do feel changed forever though.
Let’s hope those margins are clear and you’re one step closer to good health, I’m sure you’re relieved to be home. Sounds like the ward was very eventful. Good to hear from you, I think we all recognise the being all over the place emotionally, it’s so incredibly hard holding it together all the time. Hope you get some rest and have good support around you x
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