Lack of support from partner since mastectomy

I’m really sorry that you’re feeling so unsupported, it’s a lot when you’re going through so much. My ex husband was difficult the first time I had breast cancer, I was divorced the second time and honestly, it was easier without him!! There are some lovely, supportive partners out there, and some pretty selfish ones too, there’s quite often threads on here about partners who can’t be supportive, it makes me feel sorry for us ladies. I think some get used to us doing everything and take it for granted, they cant step up when it’s needed. Also, I have a friend who lives separately from her partner of 16 years, they’ve tried living together twice, doesn’t work. When they live separately it’s smooth sailing, sometimes when you’re older you just like things your way. Hope things improve for you x