Hi everyone
I haven't started my chemo yet but after a 2nd WLE after a lumpectomy to get the correct margins (yesterday) I have my results in 3 weeks and if clear, I will start chemo for (IDC/ER+/PR+/HER2- grade 3 - 1 lymph node out of 3 effected) sometime in September.
I am a real control freak so I have been obsessed reading up on all things chemo and particularly around keeping my hair. I am having 3 x EC and 3 x Docetaxel and know it will be unlikely that I will keep my hair but I am hoping the project might keep my mind off sitting around and waiting for the side effects to kick in. I will be getting a wig ready just in case.....
I met a lovely lady at my daughters school who had the same cancer as me this time last year - same chemo and she manged to keep her hair!! She has given me all her tips - it sounds a bit of a slog but I am going to try this too! Why not eh?
Sorry if you have already heard some of this .. this is not scientific but it is just what worked for someone - it might not work for us but fingers crossed!
1) Cold capping.
With the cold cap the first thing they do is spray your hair with water but they don't always get it wet enough. Ask if you can use the spray and do it yourself. Apparently making it really wet is crucial so always ask for the spray and just wet your hair yourself until it is literally dripping and then lather it in conditioner (take your own with you if you like). The conditioner stops the cold cap sticking to your hair when you try and take it off because your hair is frozen and can be a bit brittle and break off. Take paracetamol or similar before the cap goes on.
The next thing is to make sure they were really careful choosing the right size cold cap - If you are a medium and then make you check it is a medium each time, quite often they can pick up a large or a small and you need to ask for them to go back for the right size. Put it on yourself rather than letting the nurse/ health care assistant do it - nobody is as invested in getting it right as you are and if someone is with you get them to check it is on straight etc.
Sounds obvious but make sure you pull it down round the back of your ears so it sits snugly and that it is touching all areas of your scalp otherwise the bits you miss will likely shed.
2) Things to do at home after chemo
When you get home after having the chemotherapy always wash the conditioner off in cold water, in fact only wash your hair in cold water throughout the chemotherapy. It isn't pleasant but the one time my friend washed it in a hot shower it started to come out in her hand so she just leant over the bath and used cold water and that never happened again -God knows why but cold water seemed OK but hot water was problematic for her hair.
The hot water thing also made her think using a hairdryer/ straighteners probably wouldn’t help so she stopped using those and just let it air dry.
Use a silk pillowcase, she never noticed any hair on her pillow. Lots of people on this site have already suggested this one presumably because of less friction.
She took high dose biotin supplements for a few weeks up to starting chemotherapy but stopped during chemotherapy. ******Maybe check with GP or oncologist before taking any supplements as they are the experts*****
She also tried to eat a high protein diet throughout treatment.
She tried to keep her head cool - it was winter but didn’t wear a woolly hat because she noticed if her head got warm she started shedding more.
She did have one episode of quite significant hair loss which was around 5 weeks after the first dose of EC . It was quite upsetting and I think this would be the point most people would think oh heck here we go and shave their head but I decided to stick with it and it actually stopped after a day or so (or at least slowed down massively) so I might be inclined to hold fire with the clippers if you have a couple of days of fairly significant hair loss, it’s not a given it will continue.
She used revitalash on her eyebrows and eyelashes, it worked well and didn’t lose eyebrows and kept most of her eyelashes. You could also have your eyebrows tattooed in a natural looking style before chemo over your real ones.
Hope it works for someone! if anyone has any different tips or experience please post! Eden thanks for your tips on your profile! It's a really good summary of side effects and how to deal with etc - thank you!
Andrea
Hi Andrea,
I was about to start chemo this time last year so I know how you are feeling! Keeping my hair was a really big thing to me so I really looked in to what could/needed to be done for the best chance. As you have mentioned making sure the cap is on really well with the chin strap pulled tight so it sits on the crown of your head well, my jaw use to be in a lot of pain by the end! I also really tried to hold off washing my hair and was advised every 7-10 days, I did use warm water! I have long hair and I put it in a plait and kept it in a plait unless I washed it so I also barely brushed it, the more I tampered with it the more I lost! I kept about 70 % it just thinned but no one would have noticed!
I did lose my eye lashes and eyebrows became thin but I use to wear eyeliner and fill in my eyebrows with a pencil and it did the job!!!
Good luck! Once you start you will probably feel more in control and it gets easier knowing what you are dealing with the unknown is always the worst.
Xx
Thanks Belle123
I will try to not wash my hair that much and I might platt mine too. Mine is just a bit longer than shoulder length. I have got used to not washing much after surgery as I prefer shallow baths to showers are scared of getting dressing wet.
If you think of any more tips let.me know.
Hi ACharge80. My daughter started with exactly the same chemo as you and she did cold cap. Sadly, it didn't work for her and she'd lost 80% of her hair before cycle 3 - despite being super careful and doing most of the things you've suggested.
She was very upset at the time but decided to 'take control' and had her hairdresser remove the last straggly bits. She felt so much better then. Hated wearing a wig and chose to acquire a whole wardrobe of chemo head gear - Etsy is your friend. Her hair had started to grow back before she finished Docetaxol.
Two years on, three surgeries, radiotherapy and a further 14 chemo cycles, she's doing well and her hair is a thick, chin length bob. Shes recently had her first highlights.
I wish you the very best with your treatment and hope you keep your hair. But you will cope if you don't, you really will. Sending love xx
Thank you for the info.. I have my 2nd dose of EC on Monday (3weeks after the 1st) and noticed yesterday I have a bald patch in the middle top of my head, I was so upset being as I used the cold cap, I’m going to try the washing of my hair in cold water to see if that helps 
This has happened to me on EC too, my hair looks horrific. I’ve had 2 sessions with third and last on Monday, cannot wait, it has wrecked my hair (I have cold capped). I wish I’d plaited it and washed in cold water but might try that after last session, just got straggly matted bits left now
Hi Cherry2
I am glad to hear that your daughter is doing well now and has her hair back! Sounds like she has been through an awful lot.
If I lose my hair - it is what it is! I am prepared but no harm trying!
It's reassuring to hear that her hair was growing back on the docetaxol - it seems to be EC that's the issue for hair loss!
Andrea
You can easy get away with that patch - keep going. Did it help to wash in cold water?
How was the cold cap - did it hurt? Was it uncomfortable?
Hi Sparkle498uk
How much of your hair have you managed to hang on to? Just try keep as much as you can even if a right mess. You can sort it out later! Good luck with your last EC - do you have another chemo after EC has finished?
I didn't think the cold cap hurt, was really cold, the first 10 minutes was the worst. Had to wear it 20 mins before chemo, then 90 mins after, the last 20 mins i was ready to take it off
Yeah I’m planning on not touching it after Monday for about a month. I have too many bald patches that I can’t cover as the rest is matted together so have lost quite a bit. I’ve been wearing a wig the past week, human hair lace front and back so can wear it up and I actually really like it.
No I’m done with chemo after tomorrow. I’ve had 9 weekly sessions of paclitaxal and carboplatin then I went onto 3 three weekly sessions of EC. Just waiting for radiotherapy appointment now.
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