Looking for some advice on what will happen next a family member was diagnosed last year august with a very rare agressive bladder cancer she has been told it’s not curable and her treatment from
day one was end of life care. her cancer spread from
her bladder to her lymnth nodes and her uterus she had major surgery to have hysterectomy lymnth nodes removed and bladder removed. it then spread to nerve in her pain and recently her hip. chemo has helped there was no cells left in abdomen after christmas but they find it on her leg in a nerve and also to her hip which is causing fractures she’s had some radiotherapy and now on new ct scan it’s gone in to her lower spine. she has been offered immune therapy which she starts next week she’s only 39 and has young children. i would love to know anyone been through this are we thinking she can fight it or should we be making memories i feel sad as she’s always in lot of pain in her spine :( we live four hours away too
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