Hello, my husband has been recently diagnosed with cancer and faces surgery. I found out a few months ago that he had been having an affair. We have been trying to work things out, he is very sorry but I am struggling to come to terms with everything and move forward, we both want it to work and have had counselling.
However, since his recent diagnosis, I feel I can no longer voice my concerns and as only a very small amount of people knew what he did, everyone thinks we are the perfect couple who will cope with this together but I am shattered inside by his infidelity. I don't feel I can voice this without sounding selfish and only concerned for my own feelings, which I'm not, I love him and am supporting him, but have turned to this forum in case anyone has ever been in the same situation?
Thank you.
